When I was married to my second husband, Ted (whose name is not Ted), we had the kids conversation before we got married. (This is discussed in both No Children, No Guilt, and – in a slightly different context – What Every Woman Wishes Modern Men Knew About Women.) The consensus: It was fine that I didn’t want kids.
However, a couple years later, kids came up again. He wanted them.
“Come on,” he said. “It would be neat!”
I tried to see his point of view.
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